Character Corner: Conquering fears

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  • By Tech. Sgt. William Garringer
  • Center for Character and Leadership Development
U.S. AIR FORCE ACADEMY, Colo. --  In what appears sheer coincidence, within a two-day period, I heard or read several statements citing fear as the main topic. One was President Franklin D. Roosevelt's "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself." Another was from the daily Words of Wisdom quoting Andy Offutt Irwin with "Don't be afraid to be amazing." In a meeting, Chief Master Sgt. Richard Ross said, "We need to not be afraid of getting out of our comfort zones."

By tackling our personal fears and facing what causes us anxiety, we can gain self-confidence. By confronting the things that seem daunting in our lives we build self-esteem. By rising to the occasion and mustering resolve, we broaden our skills and abilities, create new comfort zones, strengthen our personality and deepen our character.

For me, public speaking has always been a challenge and my biggest fear. How have I confronted this personal obstacle? I joined Toastmasters! For the last year, I have been a member of Academy Orators - the Air Force Academy's own Toastmasters Club. This group supports and encourages people to hone and sharpen their public speaking skills. Being a member of Toastmasters has allowed me to grow beyond the fear that once held me back.

There are myriad of other groups, clubs and support agencies ready to facilitate personal character growth. I challenge you to find the courage to try, do, excel, learn, grow and succeed. In doing so, you will see Norman Vincent Peale was right when he said, "Stand up to your obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven't half the strength you think they have."